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Self-Kindness

MISTAKESThis is still one my all-time favorite passages:
” I had the same dream each night – that I had a child,
and even in the dream I saw that the child was my life;
and it was an idiot, and I ran away.
Until I thought, if I could kiss it…
perhaps I could rest.
And I bent to its broken face, and it was horrible…
but I kissed it.
I think one must finally take one’s life in one’s arms.” 
–  Arthur Miller, After the Fall

The Magic Wand of Gratitude

“Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life.
It turns what we have into enough, and more.
It turns denial into acceptance,
chaos to order, confusion to clarity.
It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home,
a stranger into a friend.
Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today,
and creates a vision for tomorrow.”

– MELODY BEATTIE

I must confess that Fear still has a way of tricking me into forgetting the Love that I know, I know, I know! I remember on the surface; my mental knowing stays intact. But Fear makes Love feel dry and shallow.  The deep, juicy well of Love that enlivens my knowing gets blocked by Fear’s magnetic, hypnotic negativity.

DumbledoreToday, though, the channel is clear again, made possible by the magic wand of gratitude.  And it truly is a magic wand! Simply pass it over your head two or three times, incant the words “I am grateful for…”  and fill in the blank with those things and people that you are so blessed to have in your life.  It may take some effort depending upon the strength of Fear’s hold, but hey, even with a magic wand, some effort is required!  Once you begin to feel even one or two hits of gratitude (and it is critical that you feel it, not just say the words), you will have Fear on the run.  And then you can literally feel the crust around your heart that you didn’t even know was there, begin to crumble.

So today, for gratitude itself, I want to shout out, “I’m so grateful! I can access the well!”

Happy spelling!

Free, Indeed

Free IndeedThe big spiritual lesson in these current times, I believe, is the recognition of our subjective consciousness and the practice of redirecting negative thinking. Problems in life do us in less frequently than we think. On the other hand, our thoughts about problems do us in all the time.  But here is the thing: our thoughts are 100% malleable. We have the power to choose what we think.

I know this is not news to most spiritual students.  We all know it. Yet the power of negative thinking is so insidious and pervasive, we need constant reminders to snap us awake.

“You shall be free indeed
when your days are not
without a care nor your nights
without a want and a grief,
but rather when these things
girdle your life and yet 
you rise above them
naked and unbound.”

– Kahlil Gibran